Mphamvu Zodabwitsa Za Madalitso

Lofalitsidwa ndi Richard Brunton Ministries

New Zealand

© 2018 Richard Brunton

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MAUMWINI ONSE NDI OTETEZEDWA

Palibe gawo la bukhu ili likhoza kubwerekanso, kusungidwa mu njira yobweretsera, kapena kupititsidwa mwa mtundu uliwonse kapena mwa njira iliyonse, zamagetsi, zamakina, kujambula kujambula, kujambula kapena ayi, popanda chilolezo cholembedwa choyamba kuchokera kwa wofalitsa.

ZAMKATIMU

Maulosi

Chiyambi

Gawo Imodzi: Chifukwa Chake Madalitso

Malingaliro

Mphamvu Yathu Kulankhula

Kuchokera Ku Zabwino Kulankhula Ndi Madalitso: Kuitana Kwathu

Kodi Mdalitso Wachikhristu Ndi Chiyani?

Ulamuliro Wathu Wauzimu

Gawo Lachiwiri: Mmene Mungachitire

Mfundo Zina Zofunikira

Sungani Mlomo Kukhala Moyo Wosatha

Funsani Mzimu Woyera Zomwe Munganene

Madalitso Osiyana ndi Kupembedzedzwa

Musamaweruze

Chitsanzo Chachifaniziro

Mavuto Osiyana Amene Tingawapeze

Madalitso Omwe Amakutemberera Kapena Kukudzudzula

Kudalista Amene Akukuzunzani Kapena Akukukanizani

Kudalitsa Amene Akukuvutitsani Inu

Madalitso, M’malo mwa Modzidzudzula

Kuzindikira ndi Kuthetsa Zotsutsa

Mlomo Wodalitsika

Maganizo A Wodalitsika

Madalitso Ambiri Athu

Kudalitsa Banja Lanu, Ukwati ndi Ana

Madalitso a Atate

Kudalitsa Ena Mwa Kumasula Ulosi

Kudalitsa Ntchito Yanu

Kudalitsa Anthu aDera

Kudalitsa Dziko

Kudalitsa Ambuye

Mawu Otsiriza ochokera kwa Wophunzira

Mapulogalamu

Mmene Mungakhalire Mkhristu

MAULOSI

Ndikukulimbikitsani kuti muwerenge buku laling’ono ndi uthenga wake wamphamvu – mudzasinthidwa!

Ndi pamene ine ndi Richard Brunton tinkadya chakudya cham’maŵa m’mawa mmawa kuti adagawane zomwe Mulungu adamuululira za mphamvu ya dalitso, ndipo pomwepo ndinawona kuthekera kwakukulu m’miyoyo ya ena.

Ndinajambula uthenga wake kuti uwonetsere pamsasa wathu amuna. Amuna omwe analipo akuganiza kuti zinali zabwino kuti afune kuti mpingo wonse umve. Anthu anayamba kuligwiritsa ntchito m’mbali zonse za moyo wawo ndipo tinamva umboni wodabwitsa. Mmodzi wa busi-nessman adanena kuti bizinesi yake idachokera ku ‘kanthu, kuti apindule’ mkati mwa masabata awiri. Ena adachiritsidwa pamene adayamba kudalitsa matupi awo.

Mpata wina woti uthenga uwu umveke unayamba kutsegula. Ndinayenera kulankhula pa Kusonkhanitsa kwa Zachiwiri (kumene abusa amasonkhana kuti aphunzire ndikutsitsimutsidwa) ku Kenya ndi Uganda. Richard anandiperekeza ine paulendo umenewo ndipo anakambirana za madalitso. Uthengawo unadutsa kupyola muzengereza ndi zopweteka. Ambiri mwa omvera sanadalitsidwe ndi atate awo ndipo monga Richard adayimilira pa ntchito imeneyi ndipo adawadalitsa, ambiri adalira ndikumva kumasulidwa kwauzimu ndi kusintha kwauzimu pamodzi ndi kusintha msanga pamoyo wawo.

Kudziwa kudalitsa kwakhudza moyo wanga mpaka pamene tsopano ndikuyang’ana mipata yakudalitsa ena mu ‘mawu ndi zochita’ – mwa zomwe ndikunena ndi kuchita. Mudzakondwera ndi bukhu Ili, ndipo ngati muligwiritsa ntchito pa moyo wanu, zipatso zanu zidzachulukira ndipo zidzasefukira Ufumu wa Mulungu.

Geoff Wiklund

Geoff Wiklund Ministries,

Chairman, Promise Keepers, New Zealand

Mulungu wadalitsa Richard ndi vumbulutso la mphamvu ya dalitso pamene ilo limasulidwa kwa ena. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ichi ndi vumbulutso lochokera kwa Mulungu kwa nthawi yathu. Pamene Richard akulalikira uthenga wake, izi zimabweretsa kutsimikizirika komwe anthu amavomereza nthawi yomweyo.

Izi zinatipangitsa ife kuyitanira Richard kuti alankhule pa zochitika zonse za anthu athu olonjezedwa. Zotsatira zake zinali zamphamvu kwambiri komanso kusintha kwa moyo kwa ambiri.

‘Madalitso’ anali nkhani yomwe inalowamo ndikugwira mitima ya anthu pazochitika za Prom Promiseers. Panali kuyankha kwakukulu kwa chiphunzitso chofunikira ichi dalitso, ulemelero ndi mphamvu ya ‘kulankhula bwino’. Ambiri mwa amunawa sanalandiredi madalitso kapena amapereka kwa ena. Atamva uthenga wa Richard, ndikuwerenga bukuli, adalandira madalitso akulu ndipo adali okonzeka kudalitsa ena m’dzina la Atate, Mwana ndi Mzimu Woyera.

Ndikuyamikira Richard ndi buku ili pa The Awesome Power of Blessing monga njira yamphamvu yowamasula chidzalo cha madalitso a Mulungu m’mabanja athu, anthu athu komanso dziko lathu.

Paul Subritzky

National Director, Promise Keepers, New Zealand

CHIYAMBI

Aliyense amakonda kumva uthenga wosangalatsa – ndipo ndi bwino kuti muthe kulankhula!

Pamene ndinapeza kufunika kopereka dalitso, kunali ngati kuti ndine munthu m’Baibulo amene adapeza chuma m’munda. Ndinafotokozera Pastor Geoff Wiklund maganizo anga ndi zomwe ndinakumana nazo ndipo adandiuza kuti ndiyankhule ndi amuna a tchalitchi chake pamsasa mu February 2015. Iwo adachita chidwi kwambiri kuti mpingo wonse umve uthengawo.

Nditayankhula ku tchalitchichi, Reverend Brian France, wa Charisma Christian Ministries, ndi Paul Subritzky, wa Promise Keepers NZ, adakhalapo tsiku limenelo. Izi zandichititsa kuti ndikuwombera uthenga ku Charisma ku New Zealand ndi ku Fiji, komanso kwa amuna a Promise Keepers. Ambiri anachigwira ndipo nthawi yomweyo anayamba kuigwiritsa ntchito ndi zotsatira zabwino. Ena adanena kuti anali asanamvepo akuphunzitsa pa mbali iyi ya Ufumu wa Mulungu.

Utumiki wa madalitso unali ngati snowball. (Kodi Mulungu sakunena kuti, ‘Mphatso ya munthu idzamupatsa malo’?) Kumapeto kwa 2015, ndinatsagana ndi Pastor Geoff ku Kenya ndi Uganda. Iye anali akutumikira mazana a abusa akupita kusonkhanitsa kwa akuluakulu. Ichi chinali chochitika chaka ndi chaka pamene zipata zazitali zinkafuna kudzoza ndi kuthandizira, ndipo Geoff ankawona kuti kuphunzitsa kwanga pa madalitso kungakhale kothandiza kwa iwo. Ndipo kotero izo zinapezeka. Osati abusa okha, koma oyankhula ena ochokera ku America, Australia ndi South Africa anawona kuti ndi uthenga wamphamvu ndipo anandilimbikitsa kuti ndichite chinachake kuti ndikafike kwa anthu ambiri.

Sindinkafuna kumanga ndi kusunga webusaitiyi, kapena kulemba ntchito yozama pamene ena abwino omwe alipo kale. Uthenga wa madalitso ndi wosavuta – mosavuta kugwiritsira ntchito – ndipo sindinkafuna kuti ziwonetsedwe zake zikhale zovuta – choncho buku ili laling’ono.

Ndatengapo chidwi kuchokera ku Mphamvu ya Madalitso ndi Kerry Kirkwood, Kuchokera Kwachisomo: Kukhala Anthu a Madalitso ndi Roy Godwin ndi Dave Roberts, Madalitso a Atate a Frank Hammond, ndi Chozizwitsa ndi Mphamvu ya Blessing ndi Maurice Berquist. Ndikutsimikiza kuti ndatengeka kapena kuphunzira kuchokera kwa anthu ena komanso mabuku ena, koma kwa zaka zonsezi zagwirizana.

Kuzindikira mphamvu ya dalitso kudzatsegulira njira yatsopano ya moyo kwa aliyense amene amachitapo. Ndikudalitsa anthu masiku ambiri tsopano – okhulupilira ndi osabisala – kumalo odyera, mahoitchini, mahotela, zipinda zodikira ngakhale pamsewu. Ndadalitsanso ana amasiye, antchito amasiye, woyang’anira ndege pa ndege, minda ya zipatso, nyama, ndalama, malonda ndi zachipatala. Ndakhala ndikukula amuna ndi akazi akulira pachifuwa panga ndikudalitsa kwa atate.

Pamene ndikuyankhula ndi osakhulupirira, ndapeza kuti ‘Kodi ndikudalitseni / bizinesi yanu / banja lanu ndi zina?’ Sichiwopseza kuposa ‘Ndingakupemphererani?’ Ndithudi, njira yosavutayi, yomwe ikuwonetsedwa mwachikondi, inatsogolera Achibale anga akudziwa chikondi ndi mphamvu zopulumutsa za Yesu Khristu, pambuyo pa zaka zambiri.

Nthawi zambiri sindimawona zotsatira zake, koma ndawona mokwanira kuti madalitso adasintha miyoyo. Ndipo zasintha zanga. Ndi chikhalidwe cha Mulungu kudalitsa ndipo, monga zolengedwa zopangidwa m’chifanizo Chake, ziri mu DNA yathu yauzimu. Mzimu Woyera ukuyembekezera anthu a Mulungu kuti atulukemo mu chikhulupiriro ndi ulamuliro umene Yesu Khristu adawapindula, kuti asinthe miyoyo.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mutapeza kabukuka kothandiza. Yesu sanatisiye ife opanda mphamvu. Kulankhula madalitso m’zochitika zosiyanasiyana ndi chisomo chauzimu chosanyalanyaza chimene chingasinthe dziko lanu.

Sangalalani.

Richard Brunton

MALINGALIRO

Mkazi wanga Nicole ndi New Caledonian ndipo, motero, izo zinkatanthauza kuti ndiyenera kuphunzira kuyankhula Chifalansa ndikukhala nthawi yokwanira pamalo ake obadwira, Noumea. Ngakhale kuti New Caledonia ndiyesa kuyesa Katolika, sizinayambe ndisanazindikire kuti anthu ambiri adakumananso ndi ‘mbali yamdima’, komanso amachita chipembedzo chawo. Sizinali zachilendo kuti anthu azichezera munthu wamba, wololera kapena wothandizira popanda kumvetsa kuti kwenikweni anali kufunsira ufiti.

Ndimakumbukira kuti mkazi wanga ananditengera kukacheza ndi mtsikana wina wazaka makumi awiri yemwe adatengedwera kwa mmodzi wa ochiritsira awa, koma amene adatsitsimulidwa kale, adakhala m’nyumba ya anthu osokonezeka maganizo. Pamene ndinamudziwa kuti ndi Mkhristu, ndinayankha ziwanda zomwe zidalowa mwa iye, m’dzina la Yesu Khristu. Wansembe wachikatolika anapemphera komanso,pakati pathu, msungwana uyu adamasulidwa ndikumasulidwa ku bungwe posakhalitsa.

Ena amati chipembedzo chawo cha Katolika ndipo komabe amawonetsera ziboliboli kapena zojambulajambula za milungu ina. Panali munthu mmodzi wotero amene ndinakumana naye amene anali ndi vuto lopitirirabe m’mimba. Tsiku lina ndinamuuza kuti ndikukhulupirira kuti ngati atachotsa Buddha wamkulu, yemwe anali kutsogolo kwa nyumba yake – zonsezi zinatentha usiku – mavuto ake m’mimba amatha. Kuonjezera apo, zina mwa zinthu zomwe anazitenga kuti azipita. Iye anakana – zikanatheka bwanji kuti izi ‘zakufa’ zimupweteke? Patapita miyezi ingapo ndinamuonanso ndikufunsa momwe mimba yake inaliri. Nkhosa zina-mwamunayo anayankha, ‘Ine potsiriza ndinatenga malangizo anu ndikumuchotsa Buddha. Mimba yanga ili bwino tsopano.’

Nthawi ina, ndinafunsidwa kuti ndipite kunyumba ya mayi ali ndi khansa. Ndisanayambe kupemphera ndinapempha kuti achotse zifaniziro za Buddha pamalo awo opuma, zomwe mwamuna wake adazichita mwamsanga. Pamene ndinam’temberera ndi kulamula kuti ziwanda zichoke m’dzina la Yesu, iye adalongosola kuti chimfine chimakhala chosasunthira kusunthira thupi lake kumapazi ake ndikuchoka pamutu pake.

Kotero, motsatira izi, ndinaganiza zopereka chiphunzitso pa ‘matemberero’ ku gulu la pemphero limene ine ndi mkazi wanga tinayambira m’nyumba yathu ya Noumea. Chiphunzitsocho chinachokera kuntchito ya Derek Prince (Derek Prince anali mphunzitsi wotchuka wa Baibulo wa zaka makumi awiri). Pamene ndinali kukonzekera uthenga wanga m’Chifalansa, ndinaphunzira kuti mawu awo otemberera anali malédiction, ndipo mawu awo a madalitso anali bénédiction. Mizu yeniyeni ya mawu awa ndi ‘kulankhula koipa’ ndi ‘kulankhula bwino’.

Poyamba, pamene ndinafanizira kutemberera ndi kudalitsa, kutukwana kunkaoneka ngati mdima, kolemetsa komanso koopsa, ndipo madalitso ankawoneka opepuka komanso osasamala. Ndinali nditaphunzira ziphunzitso potembereredwa kale, koma sindinadalitsike – zomwe zidawathandiza kuti ndipitirize. Sindinamvepo wina akudalitsa munthu wina ndi cholinga chenichenicho. Ndipotu, kukula kwa dalitso lachikhristu kungakhale kunena, ‘Akudalitseni’, pamene wina akunyoza, kapena kulemba ‘Madalitso’ kumapeto kwa kalata kapena imelo – ngati kuti chinali chizoloŵezi osati chinthu chofuna.

Pambuyo pake, pamene ndinaganizira mawu awa, ‘kutukwana’ ndi ‘ulemelero’, zinandichitikira kuti ngati ‘kulankhula zoipa’ kunali kolimba, ndiye kuti ‘kulankhula bwino’ kungakhale kolimba ndipo, ndi Mulungu, mwinamwake wochuluka kwambiri!

Vumbulutso ili, pamodzi ndi zidziwitso zina zomwe tidzakambilane panthawi ina, ndipatseni kuti ndikapeze mphamvu ya dalitso.

MPHAMVU YATHU KULANKHULA

Sindikufuna kubwereza zomwe mabuku ambiri abwino adanena za mphamvu ya mawu athu, ndikufuna kupereka mwachidule zomwe ndikukhulupirira ndizofunika kwambiri m’dera lino.

Tikudziwa izi:

Imfa ndi moyo ziri mu mphamvu ya lilime ndi iwo amene amalikonda, adzadya chipatso chake. (Miyambo 18:21)

Mawu ali ndi mphamvu zazikulu – zabwino kapena zomangirira, kapena zoipa ndi zowonongeka. Nthawi iliyonse tikamayankhula mawu (komanso kugwiritsa ntchito mau ena, omwe amatanthauzanso mawu), timayankhula moyo kapena imfa kwa iwo omwe amatimvera komanso ife enieni. Komanso, tikudziwa kuti:

Pakamwa pamalankhula mwa kuchuluka kwa mtima. Munthu wabwino atulutsa zabwino m’chuma cabwino cha mtima wake; ndipo munthu woyipa atulutsa zoipa m’chuma coipa. (Mateyu 12:34-35)

Kotero, kuchokera mu mtima wovuta amalankhula lirime lovuta; kuchokera mumtima wodzilungamitsa, lilime lachiweruzo; mtima wosayamika, lilime lodandaula; ndi zina zotero. Mofananamo, mitima yonyansa imabala zipatso zofanana. Dziko liri wodzaza ndi kuyankhula kosayenera. Zofalitsa zimafalitsa tsiku ndi tsiku. Chikhalidwe cha umunthu kukhala chomwe chiri, ife sitimayankhula bwino kuposa anthu kapena zochitika. Izo sizikuwoneka kuti zimakhala mwachibadwa kwa ife. Nthawi zambiri timadikirira mpaka anthu afa asanawauze zabwino. Komabe, ‘chuma chabwino’ chimachokera ku mitima yokonda yomwe iyankhula ndi lirime lachisomo; kuchokera mu mitima yamtendere, lirime loyanjanitsa; ndi zina zotero.

Mawu akuti, ‘ndipo omwe akukonda, adye chipatso chake’ akusonyeza kuti tidzakolola zomwe timafesa – kaya zabwino kapena zoipa. Mwa kulankhula kwina, mudzapeza zomwe mumanena. Mukuganiza bwanji za izi?

Izi ndi zoona kwa anthu onse, mosasamala kanthu kuti ali ndi chikhulupiliro chachikristu kapena ayi. Akristu ndi osakhala chimodzimodzi amatha kulankhula mau a moyo – mwachitsanzo, mwina anganene kuti: ‘Mwananga, ndi nyumba yaikulu yomwe mwamanga. Mutha kukhala wokonza bwino kapena wokonza mapulani tsiku limodzi. Mwachita bwino.’

Komabe, Mkhristu wobadwanso mwatsopano ali ndi mtima watsopano. Baibulo limanena kuti ndife ‘zatsopano’ (2 Akorinto 5:17). Choncho, monga akhristu, tiyenera kukhala oyankhula bwino komanso osayenera. Titha kusokonezeka mosavuta ngati sitisamala kuti tisunge mitima ndi mawu athu. Mukangoyamba kuganizira mozama za izi, mudzadabwa kuti nthawi zambiri akhristu – ngakhale osadziwa – amatemberera okha ndi ena. Zambiri za izo mtsogolo.

KUCHOKERA KU ZABWINO KULANKHULA NDI MADALITSO: KUITANA KWATHU

Monga akhristu, ndi moyo wa Ambuye Yesu ukuyenda pakati pathu, tikhoza kupita mopitirira kungoyankhula bwino – tikhoza kulankhula ndi kupereka madalitso kwa anthu kapena mikhalidwe – ndipo ndithudi tikuitanidwa kuti tichite zimenezi. Mwina dalitso ndi kuyitana kwathu kwakukulu. Werengani izi:

Khalani okoma mtima, khalani achifundo; osabwezera choyipitsa choipa, kapena chochitira chipongwe mwachipongwe; koma mosiyana ndi dalitso, podziwa kuti mudayitanidwa, kuti mulandire madalitso. (1 Petro 3:8-9)

Tikuitanidwa kudalitsa ndi kulandira dalitso.

Chinthu choyamba chimene Mulungu analankhula kwa Adamu ndi Eva chinali dalitso:

Ndipo Mulungu anawadalitsa, ndipo Mulungu anati kwa iwo, ‘Bereka ndi kuchulukitsa; mudzaze dziko lapansi, ndipo lidzatero…’ (Genesis 1:28)

Mulungu anadalitsa iwo kuti akakhoze kubala zipatso. Madalitso ndi chikhumbo cha Mulungu – ndicho chimene Iye amachita! Ndipo monga Mulungu – ndi kuchokera kwa Mulungu – ifenso tiri ndi mphamvu komanso mphamvu yakudalitsa ena.

Yesu adadalitsa. Chinthu chotsiriza chimene Iye anachita, ngakhale pamene anali pafupi kukwera kumwamba, chinali kudalitsa ophunzira ake:

Ndipo Iye anawatsogolera iwo kunja mpaka ku Betaniya, ndipo Iye anakweza manja ake ndipo anawadalitsa iwo. Ndipo kudali, pamene Iye adawadalitsa, adachoka kwa iwo natengedwa kupita kumwamba. (Luka 24:50-51)

Yesu ndiye chitsanzo chathu. Iye anati tiyenera kuchita zinthu zomwezo zomwe Iye anachita, m’dzina Lake. Tinalengedwa ndi Mulungu kuti adalitse.

KODI MDALITSO WACHIKHRISTU NDI CHIYANI?

Mu Chipangano Chakale, mawu oti ‘dalitso’ ndilo liwu lachihebri barak. Izi zimangotanthawuza, ‘kulankhula zolinga za Mulungu’.

Mu Chipangano Chatsopano, mawu oti ‘dalitso’ ndilo liwu la Chigriki eulogia, kuchokera mmenemo timapeza liwu lakuti ‘eulogy’. Kotero, pakuchita, izi zikutanthawuza ‘kulankhula bwino’ kapena ‘kulankhula zolinga ndi chisomo cha Mulungu’ pa munthu.

Ndilo tanthauzo la madalitso limene ndidzaligwiritsa ntchito m’buku lino. Madalitso ndikulankhula zolinga kapena kukonda Mulungu pa wina kapena zina.

Mulungu, mwa mbali zambiri, mu nzeru Yake, walingalira kuti achepetse ntchito Yake padziko lapansi ku zomwe Iye angakhoze kukwaniritsa kupyolera mwa anthu Ake. Umu ndi mmene amabweretsera ufumu Wake padziko lapansi. Potero, Iye akufuna ife kuti tidalitse chifukwa cha Iye. Kotero, monga Mkhristu, ndikhoza kulankhula zolinga za Mulungu kapena kukondwera ndi wina kapena zinthu zina m’dzina la Yesu. Ngati ndichita izi ndi chikhulupiriro ndi chikondi, ndiye kuti ndili ndi mphamvu zakumwamba pambuyo pa zomwe ndimanena, ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti Mulungu adzasintha kuti asinthe zinthu kuchokera kumene ali, kumene akufuna kuti azikhala. Pamene ndikudalitsa wina mwachangu, ndi chikondi ndi chikhulupiriro, ndimamulola Mulungu kuti akonze zolinga zake kwa munthu ameneyo.

Komabe, wina angakonze zolinga za satana pa wina, kapena ngakhale mwiniwake, zomwe zimapangitsa mphamvu zamademoni kukonzekera zolinga zawo za munthu ameneyo – kutanthauza, kuba, kupha ndi kuwononga. Koma tamandani Mulungu,

Iye amene ali mwa inu ndi wamkulu kuposa iye amene ali mdziko lapansi (1 Yohane 4:4).

Ndi mtima weniweni wa Mulungu kudalitsa – ndithudi chikhalidwe chake! Chikhumbo cha Mulungu chodalitsa ndicho chodabwitsa kwambiri. Palibe chimene chingamuletse Iye. Iye watsimikiza kudalitsa anthu. Chikhumbo chake ndi chakuti Yesu adzakhala ndi abale ndi alongo ambiri. Ndife! Komabe, ngakhale ndi mtima weniweni wa Mulungu kuti adalitse anthu, Amafuna kwambiri kuti anthu Ake adalitsirane.

Tikadalitsa m’dzina la Yesu, Mzimu Woyera amabwera chifukwa tikuwonetsa chinthu chimene Atate akuchita – tikuyankhula mawu omwe Atate amafuna kuti atchulidwe. Ndimadabwa kwambiri kuti izi ndi zoona. Pamene ndikudalitsa wina, Mzimu Woyera umakhudzidwa – Amakhudza munthu wina, chikondi chimamasulidwa ndipo zinthu zimasintha. Kawirikawiri anthu amandikumbatira pambuyo pake, kapena amalira ndikunena, ‘Simudziwa kuti ndi nthawi yake komanso yamphamvu bwanji,’ kapena ‘Simudziwa kuti ndifunika bwanji.’

Koma apa pali chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuti tizindikire: Timadalitsa kuchokera pamalo apamtima ndi Mulungu, kuchokera pa Kukhalapo Kwake. Kuyandikira kwathu kwauzimu ndi Mulungu ndikofunikira kwambiri. Mawu athu ndi mau Ake ndipo iwo adzozedwa ndi mphamvu Yake kukwaniritsa zolinga zake kwa munthu ameneyo kapena mkhalidwe wake. Koma tiyeni tibwerere pang’ono.

ULAMULIRO WATHU WAUZIMU

Mu Chipangano Chakale, ansembe adayenera kupembedzera anthu ndi kudalitsa madalitso awo.

Umu ndi momwe mudzadalitsire ana aIsraeli. Auzeni kuti:

Ambuye akudalitseni ndikusungani inu; Ambuye apangitse nkhope Yake kukuwunikire, ndikuchitireni chifundo. Ambuye akweze nkhope yake pa inu, ndikupatseni mtendere.

Potero adzaika dzina langa pa ana a Israyeli, ndipo ndidzawadalitsa. (Numeri 6:23-27)

Mu Chipangano Chatsopano, ife monga Akhristu timatchedwa:

Mbadwo wosankhidwa, unsembe wachifumu, mtundu woyera, anthu ake apadera, kuti inu mulemekeze matamando a Iye amene anakuitanani inu kuchoka mu mdima kulowa mukuwawala kwake kodabwitsa. (1 Petro 2:9)

Ndipo Yesu:

…watipanga ife mafumu ndi ansembe kwa Mulungu wake ndi Atate… (Chivumbulutso 1:6)

Nthawi ina kale, ndimakhala ku Ouen Toro, komwe ndikuyang’ana ku Noumea, kufunafuna uthenga kuti ndibweretse gulu la pemphero. Ndinamva Mulungu akunena kuti, ‘Simudziwa kuti ndiwe ndani.’ Kenaka miyezi ingapo pambuyo pake: ‘Ngati iwe ukanadziwa ulamuliro umene uli nawo mwa Khristu Yesu iwe ukasintha dziko lapansi.’ Mauwa onsewa anali magulu ena a anthu koma, ndinazindikiranso pambuyo pake, iwo anali a ine.

Ndikuganiza kuti nthawi zambiri amadziwika m’magulu achikhristu omwe amalankhula ndi matenda kapena chikhalidwe (a ‘mountain’ – Marko 11:23) ndipo kulamula machiritso kumapindulitsa kuposa kumupempha Mulungu kuti achite (Mateyu 10:8; 16:17-18). Izi zakhala zondichitikira ndi zomwe zinachitikira anthu ena odziwika bwino komanso olemekezeka omwe amagwira ntchito komanso opambana mu utumiki wamachiritso ndi wopulumutsa. Ndikukhulupirira kuti Yesu akunena kuti, ‘Mukuchiritsa odwala (m’dzina langa). Si ntchito yanga, ndi ntchito yanu. Inu mumachita izo.‘

Mulungu akufuna kuchiza ndipo Iye akufuna kuti achite izi kudzera mwa ife. Mulungu akufuna kupulumutsa ndipo Iye akufuna kuti achite izo kudzera mwa ife. Mulungu akufuna kudalitsa ndipo Iye akufuna kuti achite izo kudzera mwa ife. Titha kupempha Mulungu kuti adalitse, kapena tikhoza kudalitsa m’dzina la Yesu.

Zaka zingapo zapitazo, ndikukumbukira kutenga nthawi kuti ndipite kukagwira ntchito kudalitsa bizinesi yanga. Ndinayamba ndi, ‘Mulungu, dalitsani Colmar Brunton.’ Kenaka ndinasintha – poyamba ndikuchita manyazi – kuchokera ku ‘Mulungu adalitse Colmar Brunton’ kuti:

Colmar Brunton, ndikudalitsani m’dzina la Atate, Mwana ndi Mzimu Woyera. Ndikudalitseni ku Auckland, ndikudalitseni ku Wellington, ndipo ndikudalitseni m’madera. Ndikukudalitsani kuntchito ndipo ndikudalitseni panyumba. Ndimasula Ufumu wa Mulungu m’malo ano. Bwerani Mzimu Woyera, Mwalandiridwa kuno. Ndimasula chikondi ndi chimwemwe ndi mtendere ndi kuleza mtima ndi kukoma mtima ndi ubwino ndi kufatsa komanso kukhulupirika ndi kudziletsa komanso mgwirizano.

Pamene ndimamverera kutsogoleredwa, ndikanakhala ndi chizindikiro cha mtanda pamakomo pathu ndipo ndikugwiritsa ntchito moyenera chitetezo cha mwazi wa Yesu pa bizinesi yathu.

Kuyambira nthawi yomwe ndinasintha kuchokera ku ‘Mulungu adalitsike Colmar Brunton’ kuti ‘Ndidalitse Colmar Brunton m’dzina la Atate, Mwana ndi Mzimu Woyera’, kudzoza kwa Mulungu kunagwa pa ine – Ndinkawona chisangalalo cha Mulungu ndi kutsimikizira. Zinali ngati Iye anali kunena, ‘Iwe uli nacho icho, mwana; Ndicho chimene ndikufuna kuti inu muchite.’ Ngakhale kuti ndiyenera kuti ndachita izi tsopano, nthawi zambiri ndakhala ndikukondwera ndi Mulungu. Ndipo zotsatira zake? Chisokonezo muofesi chinasintha, ndipo chinasintha mofulumira, mpaka pomwe anthu adzalankhula momasuka za izo, ndikudabwa chifukwa chake zinthu zinali zosiyana kwambiri. Zinalidi zodabwitsa! Madalitso angasinthedi dziko lathu.

Koma sindinayime pamenepo. M’mawa, pamene ofesiyo inali yopanda kanthu, pamene ndinafika pa mpando wa munthu yemwe ankafuna nzeru pa malo ena, ndidawadalitsa, ndikuyika manja pa mpando, ndikukhulupirira kuti kudzoza kuti muchite madalitso akanadutsa mkati mwa mpando wa mpando ndikutero kwa munthu yemwe wakhalapo (Machitidwe 19:12). Nthawi iliyonse ndikadziwa zosowa zomwe anthu amakumana nazo, ndimadalitsa m’njira imeneyi.

Ndimakumbukira makamaka munthu amene amakhala ndi chizoloŵezi chopwetekedwa mtima-kutanthauza kuti, amagwiritsa ntchito dzina la Mulungu ngati kuthamangitsa. Mmawa wina ine ndinayika manja pa mpando wake, ndikumangiriza mzimu wa kunyoza, mu Dzina la Yesu. Zinatengera angapo kupita, koma pamapeto pake mzimu woyipa kumbuyo kwawo unkayenera kugwadira ku mphamvu yayikulu ndi kunyoza-kunayambira kuchokera kuntchito ya munthu wogwira ntchito.

Ndimakumbukiranso munthu wobwera kwa ine kuti akapemphere, akufuna Mulungu amuchotse kunja kwa ntchito yake chifukwa aliyense kumeneko anali kunyoza. Ndinayang’ana mosiyana: munthu uyu anali kumeneko kuti adalitse malo ake antchito ndikusintha mlengalenga! Titha kusintha dziko lathu.

Ndapanga lingaliro kuti pamene Mulungu akufuna kuti adalitse anthu, amafunanso kuti ife – anthu Ake, ana Ake – tidalitse anthu. Inu muli ndi ulamuliro woloza. Inu mudalitse!

Atate wathu wakumwamba akufuna kuti tipeze nawo gawo, kugwira nawo ntchito, ndi Iye mu ntchito Yake yowombola. Tingadalitse anthu ndi machiritso ndi chiwombolo koma tikhoza kudalitsanso anthu ndi mawu athu. Ndife anthu omwe Mulungu amagwiritsa ntchito kudalitsa dziko lapansi. Ndizofunika bwanji ndi udindo!

Kotero, kwa ine, dalitso likuyankhula zolinga za Mulungu pa miyoyo ya anthu kapena zochitika mwachikondi, maso otseguka, mwadala, ndi mphamvu ndi mphamvu, kuchokera mu mzimu wathu wodzazidwa ndi Mzimu Woyera. Mwachidule, dalitso likuchita mwachikhulupiriro mwa kulengeza cholinga cha Mulungu pa munthu kapena mkhalidwe. Pamene tilengeza cholinga cha Mulungu, timamasula luso Lake kuti tisinthe zinthu kuchokera kumene akupita kuti apeze.

Ndipo kumbukirani – ndife odalitsika chifukwa timadalitsa.

MFUNDO ZINA ZOFUNIKIRA

Sungani Mlomo Kukhala Moyo Wosatha

Ndipo kotero kudalitsa ndi kutemberera kumabwera kuchokera pakamwa komweko. Ndithudi abale anga ndi alongo anga sizolondola! (Yakobo 3:10, NLB)

Ukayankhula zamtengo wapatali, osati zopanda kanthu, udzakhala ngati pakamwa panga. (Yeremiya 15:19b, RSV)

Ngati mukufuna kulankhula zolinga za Mulungu pa anthu, ndiye kuti muyenera kupewa kulankhula mawu opanda pake – kapena oyipa kuposa opanda pake.

Funsani Mzimu Woyera Zomwe Munganene

Limbikitsani mzimu wanu (kupyolera mu kupembedza kapena kuyankhula mu malirime). Pemphani Mzimu Woyera kuti mumvetsetseChikondi cha atate kwa munthu amene mukufuna kumudalitsa. Pempherani chonga ichi:

Atate, kodi mukufuna kuti munene chiyani? Chonde ndipatseni mawu a madalitso kwa munthu uyu. Ndingamulimbikitse bwanji kapena kumulimbikitsa?

Madalitso Osiyana ndi Kupembedzedzwa

Anthu ambiri amaona kuti ndi kovuta kuphunzira kuyankhula madalitso. Mwachidziwikire amayamba ‘kulowerera,’ ndikupempha Atate kuti adalitse. Ngakhale kuti ichi ndi chinthu chabwino kuchita, dalitso loyankhulidwa mwanjirayi ndilo pemphero, ndipo ndikofunikira kudziŵa zosiyana. Kuyankhula kapena kutchula madalitso sikungokhala m’malo mwa pemphero ndi kupembedzera, koma ndi bwenzi lawo – ayenera kumapezeka nthawi zonse.

Wolemba Roy Godwin ndi Dave Roberts m’buku lawo The Grace Outpouring anena bwino izi:

Tikadalitsa, timayang’anitsitsa munthuyo (ngati zili choncho) ndikulankhulana mwachindunji kwa iye. Mwachitsanzo, tinganene kuti, ‘Ndikudalitseni m’dzina la Ambuye, kuti chisomo cha Ambuye Yesu chikhale pa inu. Ndikukudalitsani m’dzina lake kuti chikondi cha Atate chikhoza kuzungulira iwe ndikukudzaza; kuti mudziwe kuti mumadziwa bwino kwambiri kuti Iye amakukondani ndipo amakondwera nanu.’

Zindikirani zomasuliridwa kuti ‘I’. Ndi ine amene ndimatchulidwanso kuti ndikudalitsa m’dzina la Yesu pa munthuyo mwachindunji. Sindinapemphere kwa Mulungu kuti ndidalitse koma ndalankhula madalitso pogwiritsa ntchito ulamuliro umene Yesu akutipatsa kuti tiwone madalitso kwa anthu kuti Iye abwere ndi kuwadalitsa.

Musamaweruze

Musati muweruze ngati wina akuyenerera dalitso kapena ayi. Madalitso enieni, oyankhulidwa ndi wina kapena chinthu china, akulongosola momwe Mulungu amawaonera. Cholinga cha Mulungu sichinali momwe angamawonekere kuti ali panthawiyi, koma m’malo momwe akuyenera kukhalira.

Mwachitsanzo, Mulungu adamutcha Gidiyoni kukhala ‘wolimba mtima’ wathu (Oweruza 6:12) pamene, panthawiyo, anali chabe koma! Yesu adamutcha Petro ‘thanthwe’ (Mateyu 16:18) asanakhale ndi ‘mapewa’ kunyamulira anthu ena. Komanso, timawerenga kuti, ‘Mulungu … amapatsa moyo akufa, ndipo amaitana zinthu zomwe sizilipo ngati kuti zinatero’ (Aroma 4:17). Ngati tidziwa izi, zidzathetsa chizoloŵezi chathu chokhala ngati ‘woweruza’ ngati wina akuyenerera dalitso.

Anthu ochepa amayenera kudalitsidwa, akusowa kwambiri. Anthu omwe amadalitsa anthu osayenera adzalandira madalitso aakulu pobwezera.

Chitsanzo Chachifaniziro

Tangoganizirani kuti pali bambo dzina lake Fred yemwe ali ndi vuto lakumwa. Mkazi wa Fred sakukondwera naye, choncho mwina angapemphere monga: ‘Mulungu adalitse Fred. Mupangitse iye kusiya kumwa ndikumvetsera kwa ine.’ Koma zingakhale zamphamvu kwambiri kunena chinachake monga:

Fred, ndikudalitseni m’dzina la Yesu. Mulole zolinga za Mulungu za moyo wanu zichitike. Mulole kuti mukhale mwamuna, mwamuna ndi bambo omwe Mulungu anakonza kuti mukhale. Ndikukudalitsani ndi ufulu woledzera. Ndikudalitseni ndi mtendere wa Khristu.

Dalitso loyamba limapereka vuto kwa Mulungu. Zimayesetsa – ndiulesi. Ndichiweruzo komanso kudzilungamitsa, ndipo chimaganizira za machimo a Fred.

Dalitso lachiwiri limafuna kuganizira kwambiri ndi chikondi chochuluka. Sichikuwongolera ndipo chimaganizira za mphamvu zomwe Fred angakwanitse mmalo mwake. Posachedwapa ndinamva wina akunena kuti satana amadziwa dzina ndi kuthekera kwathu koma amatiitana ife ndi uchimo, pamene Mulungu amadziwa tchimo lathu koma amatiitana ife ndi dzina lathu lenileni komanso kuthekera kwathu. Madalitso achiwiri ndi ochuluka mogwirizana ndi zolinga ndi zolinga za Mulungu. Icho chimasonyeza mtima wowombola wa Mulungu. Kumbukirani, Mulungu amakonda Fred.

MAVUTO OSIYANA AMENE TINGAWAPEZE

Ndine wophunzira wa madalitso. Pamene ndinayamba, sindinadziwe kudalitsa ndipo sindinapeze zambiri kuti andithandize. Ndinayamba mwamsanga kuzindikira kuti pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zochitika, kotero ndikufuna kukupatsani malingaliro omwe akutsatira. Mutha kusintha izi ku zosowa za mkhalidwe wanu, komanso malinga ndi zomwe mumakhulupirira kuti Mzimu Woyera akufuna kuti muzinene. Izi ziyenera kuchita, koma ndizofunika.

Madalitso Omwe Amakutemberera Kapena Kukudzudzula

Zaka zambiri zapitazo, wantchito yemwe adangomusiya posachedwa anabwera kunyumba yanga kuti apange khofi ndi kunena zabwino. Zikhulupiriro zake zinali motsatira mizere ya New Age – ‘mulungu wamkazi mkati’, ndi zina zotero. Pakukambirana, adati makampani awiri omalizira omwe adagwira ntchito, ndipo adachoka, adachoka anathyoka. Ine sindinali Mkhristu motalika kwambiri pa nthawi imeneyo, koma ngakhale ine ndinazindikira kuti mawu ake anali temberero likuwoneka kuti likuwongolera. Ndinamva mphindi zowerengeka za mantha ndipo kenako, m’maganizo mwanga, ndinakana kuvomereza. Koma sindinapitepo gawo lina lakumudalitsa. Pambuyo popempha chilolezo chake kuti apemphere zomwe zinali pamtima mwanga, ndikanati ndinene ngati:

Deborah (osati dzina lake lenileni), ndikumanga chinyengo cha ufiti m’moyo wanu. Ndikukudalitsani m’dzina la Yesu. Ndikulengeza ubwino wa Mulungu pa inu. Mulole zolinga za Mulungu za moyo wanu zichitike … Ndikudalitsa mphatso zanu, mulole iwo adalitse bwana wanu wam’tsogolo ndi kubweretsa ulemerero kwa Mulungu. Mulole iwe ukhale mkazi wabwino wa Mulungu yemwe Iye akufuna kuti iwe ukhale. Mu Dzina la Yesu, ameni.

Kudalista Amene Akukuzunzani Kapena Akukukanizani

Nthaŵi ina ndinapempherera mkazi yemwe anali akuvutika maganizo komanso ndalama pambuyo poti mwamuna wake adamusiya. Ndinamufunsa ngati angamukhululukire. Chabwino izo zinali zovuta koma, kwa ngongole yake, iye anachita izo. Kenaka ndinamufunsa ngati angadalitse mwamuna wake. Anadabwa kwambiri, koma akufunitsitsa kuti apite. Ngakhale kuti mwamuna wake sanalipo, ndinamutsogolera motsatira:

Ndikukudalitsani mwamuna wanga. Mulole zolinga zonse za Mulungu pa moyo wanu ndi banja lathu zikhale zovuta. Mulole kuti mukhale mwamuna, mwamuna ndi abambo omwe Mulungu akufuna kuti mukhale. Chisomo ndi chisomo cha Mulungu chikhale ndi inu. Mu Dzina la Yesu, ameni.

Zinali zovuta kuyamba pomwe, koma kenako adagwira mtima wa Atate ndipo kudzoza kwa Mulungu kunagwa. Ife tonse tinalira pamene Mzimu Woyera adamtumikira ndipo ndikukhulupirira, mwamuna wake nayenso. Njira za Mulungu si njira zathu.

Kudalitsa mu zochitika izi ndi wolimba mtima – wolemekezeka, ngakhale – komanso wa Khristu.

Madalitso a osayenera ndi mtima wa Mulungu – Wapadera-ndizo, motero. Taganizirani za wakuba yemwe anapachikidwa pambali pa Yesu, kapena mkazi amene anagwidwa mu chigololo. Bwanji nanga iwe ndi ine?

Madalitso ndi ‘osayanjana’ ndipo amatsutsana – sizinthu zomwe anthu omwe ali m’mavuto amakhudzidwa nazo. Koma ndi njira ya Mulungu, ndipo ikhoze kuchiritsa yemwe akudalitsa komanso amene akulandira dalitso. Icho chimachotsa squirt yoopsa ya ululu, kubwezera, mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo, zomwe zingathe kuvulaza thupi lanu ndi kuchepetsa moyo wanu.

Nazi imelo yomwe ndalandira kwa Denis posachedwapa:

Pafupifupi miyezi itatu yapitayo ndinali kulankhula ndi mchimwene wanga pafoni. Sitikulankhulana zambiri monga momwe akukhalira ndikugwira ntchito mumzinda wina.

Pamene tinatsala pang’ono kumaliza kukambirana ndi abwenzi, ndinamufunsa ngati angandilole kuti ndidalitse busizinesi kuti adathamanga ndi mkazi wake. Iye sanayankhe bwino. Iye anali wamwano kwambiri ndipo ananena zinthu zina zomwe zinandikwiyitsa kwambiri, ndipo ndinadzifunsa ngati chibale chathu chidawonongeka kotheratu. Komabe, m’masiku ndi masabata omwe adatsatira, ndikuyenda moyo wanga wa tsiku ndi tsiku, ndinagwiritsa ntchito mfundo za mantha-mphamvu yodalitsika yolankhula za Mulungu pa ntchito ya mchimwene wanga. Nthawi zina ndinkachita izi katatu patsiku. Patapita miyezi itatu, tsiku lotsatira Khirisimasi, mchimwene wanga anandiyang’ana ngati kuti palibe chimene chinachitika. Ndinadabwa kwambiri chifukwa cha ubwenzi wake ndipo panalibe kukwiya pakati pathu.

Mphamvu zozizwitsa za madalitso omwe sitingathe kulamulira zimagwira ntchito… Tamandani Ambuye!

Kudalitsa Amene Akukuvutitsani Inu

Chimodzi mwa zinthu zokwiya kwambiri kwa ena a ife ndi pamene anthu amachita zachinyengo, zosayang’anitsitsa kapena zonyenga zomwe zili mumsewu. Izi zimachitika nthawi zonse. Mawu osakhala achikhristu amatha kukumbukira ndi kutuluka pakamwa pathu. Izi zikachitika, timatemberera munthu amene anapangidwa ndi Mulungu komanso yemwe Mulungu amamukonda. Mulungu akhoza kuteteza bwino munthu ameneyo.

Nthawi yotsatira izi zimachitika, yesetsani kudalitsa mwayendedwe wina, mmalo moyankhula mawu okwiya:

Ndikudalitsa mnyamata amene adandidulira (ndikuyang’ana pamzere). Ndikulengeza chikondi chanu pa iye, Ambuye. Ndimasula ubwino wanu pa iye ndi zolinga zanu zonse pa moyo wake. Ndikudalitsa mnyamata uyu ndipo ndikuyitanitsa kuthekera kwake. Mulole iye apite kwawo bwinobwino ndipo akhale dalitso kwa banja lake. Mu Dzina la Yesu, ameni.

Kapena mochepa mwachizolowezi:

Bambo, ndikudalitsa dalaivala wa galimoto imeneyo, m’dzina la Yesu. Mulole chikondi chanu chimutsatire iye ndi kumupeza ndi kumugwira!

Mmodzi mwa owerenga anga anachita chidwi chosonyeza kuti:

Chinthu chimene ndachiwona ndichokuti madalitso asintha ine. Sindingathe kudalitsa anthu omwe andipsa ine, mwachitsanzo, ndikuyankhula-kapena kuganiza – maganizo olakwika pa iwo. Icho chikanakhala cholakwika. M’malo mwake ndikuyang’ana zotsatira zabwino zomwe zimabwera kuchokera ku dalitso … – Jillian

Nthaŵi ina ndinali ndi mnzanga wina dzina lake John yemwe anandiitana kuti ndipempherere pazitsutso za banja zokhudza cholowa. Mtsutso ukukwera ndikupitirira kukhala wosasangalatsa kwambiri. Ine ndinaganiza kuti mmalo mopemphera, ife timadalitsa mkhalidwewo.

Timadalitsa mkhalidwe wotsutsana pa cholowa ichi m’dzina la Yesu. Timabwera motsutsana ndi magawano, mikangano ndi mikangano ndipo timamasula chilungamo ndi chiyanjano ndi chiyanjanitso. Pamene tikudalitsa izi, timayika pambali malingaliro athu ndi zilakolako zathu ndipo timamasula Mulungu kuti akwaniritse zolinga zake pakugawidwa kwa cholowacho. Mu Dzina la Yesu, ameni.

Patangopita masiku angapo nkhaniyi inathetsedwa bwino.

Ndimakonda zomwe wina wa owerenga anga ananena:

Ndadabwa ndi nthawi yowonongeka yomwe ndakhala ndikuwona podalitsa ena. Zili ngati kuti Ambuye ali wokonzeka kusungira chikondi mwa anthu ngati tiwamasula mapemphero owadalitsa. – M’busa Darin Olson, Junction City, Oregon Nazarene Church

Madalitso angasinthedi dziko lathu!

MADALITSO, M’MALO MWA MODZIDZUDZULA

Kuzindikira ndi Kuthetsa Zotsutsa

Maganizo awa ndi ochuluka bwanji: ‘Ndine woipa, ndine wosayankhula, ndine wosasinthasintha, ndimapepuka, palibe yemwe amandikonda, Mulungu sangandigwiritse ntchito, ndine wochimwa…’? Pali mabodza ambiri omwe satana amatipangitsa kukhulupirira.

Ndili ndi mnzanga amene amachita izi nthawi zonse, ndipo zimandikwiyitsa. ‘O, iwe mtsikana wopusa, Rose (osati dzina lake lenileni). Mwasokoneza kachiwiri. Iwe sungakhoze kuchita chirichonse molondola…’

Musabwereze kapena kuvomereza matemberero awa! M’malo mwake, adalitseni.

Ndikukumbukira gulu lina lapemphero. Ine ndinadzinenera mzimu wachabechabe pa mayi yemwe anabwera kuti adzapemphereredwe. Panthawi yopemphera, iye anati, ‘Ndine wosayankhula.’ Ndinamufunsa kumene anamva. Anandiuza kuti makolo ake adamuuza. Zomvetsa chisoni bwanji … ndi zofala bwanji.

Ndinamutsogolera motere:

M’dzina la Yesu, ndimakhululukira makolo anga. Ndimakhululukira ndekha. Ndimaswa mawu omwe makolo anga ndi ine tinalankhula pa ine. Ndili ndi malingaliro a Khristu. Ndine wanzeru.

Tinawachotsa mizimu yotsutsa komanso yopanda pake, ndipo ndinamudalitsa ndikumuuza kuti iye anali mfumu ya Mulungu, kuti anali wofunika kwa Iye, kuti Mulungu amugwiritsa ntchito kudalitsa ena, kubweretsa machiritso auzimu komanso chiyembekezo ena. Ine ndinamudalitsa iye ndi kulimbika.

Pang’ono pang’ono adalandira madalitso awa. Iye anayamba kuwala. Sabata yotsatira iye adalongosola momwe iye amamuchitira zabwino kwambiri. Ife tikhoza kusintha kwenikweni dziko lathu.

Aliyense akhoza kuchita izi. Baibulo liri lodzaza ndi zolinga za Mulungu kwa anthu ndipo tikhoza kulengeza izi.

Ndikufuna kugawana chitsanzo china. Ndinapempherera mzimayi posachedwa yemwe anali ndi ululu wamimba. Pamene ndimapemphera, Mzimu Woyera unagwera pa iye ndipo iye anawonjezereka kwambiri pamene ziwanda zinamusiya. Zonse zinali bwino kwa masiku angapo ndipo ululuwo unabwerera. Iye anafunsa kuti, ‘Chifukwa chiyani, Ambuye?’ Anamva kuti Mzimu Woyera amamukumbutsa kuti nthawi ina kale, pamene anali kumsasa, wina adamuuza kuti atsimikize kuti waphika nkhuku bwino kapena anthu amadwala. Iye anayankha kuti sakufuna kuti adwale pa masiku angapo otsatira (nthawi ya msonkhano), koma pambuyo pake palibe kanthu. Iye anayenera kuthyola mphamvu ya mawu osalankhula, ndipo pomwepo adabwereranso machiritso ake.

Mlomo Wodalitsika

Ndidalitsa pakamwa panga kulankhula zinthu zamtengo wapatali, osati zopanda pake, ndi kukhala ngati pakamwa pa Ambuye. (Malingana ndi Yeremiya 15:19)

Zozizwitsa zambiri za Yesu zinangokwaniritsidwa mwa kulankhula. Mwachitsanzo, ‘Pita; mwana wanu amakhala moyo’ (Yohane 4:50). Ndikufuna zimenezo. Ndichifukwa chake ndikudalitsa pakamwa panga ndikuteteza zomwe zimachokera.

Ine ndi mkazi wanga tinkakhala ku hotela ku Noumea. Titha kumva mwana akulira mosalekeza usiku wonse. Patadutsa mausiku angapo, mkazi wanga anapita kumalo osungirako pafupi ndipo adafunsa mayiyo zomwe zinali zolakwika. Mayiyo sankadziwa koma adanena kuti dokotalayo anali ndi mwana pa mankhwala ake atatu a antibiotic ndipo palibe chimene chinali kugwira ntchito. Mkazi wanga anam’funsa ngati ndingamupempherere mwanayo ndipo anavomera, ngakhale kuti anali wamanyazi. Kotero, mu French wanga wokhazikika kwambiri, ndinapempherera mwanayo ndikuyankhula mwachikhulupiriro pa mwanayo, kuti ‘agone ngati mwana’. Ndipo iye anatero.

Maganizo A Wodalitsika

Nthawi zambiri ndimati,

Ine ndikudalitsa malingaliro anga; Ndili ndi malingaliro a Khristu. Kotero ine ndikuganiza malingaliro Ake. Mulole malingaliro anga akhale malo oyera kumene Mzimu Woyera umakondwera kukhala. Mulole iwo alandire mawu a chidziwitso ndi nzeru ndi vumbulutso.

Nthaŵi ndi nthawi ndimamenyana ndi maganizo anga, ndipo ndikupeza kuti izi zimathandiza. Ndimadalitsanso malingaliro anga, kuti angagwiritsidwe ntchito zabwino osati zoipa. Ndinali ndi vuto lina ndi malingaliro anga tsiku lina – ndinali kuyendayenda m’malo osiyanasiyana omwe sindinafune kuti apite – ndipo Mulungu anandikhudza, ‘Onani m’maganizo anu Yesu akuchita zozizwitsa zake … ndiye dziwoneni nokha mukuzichita.’ Ndaona kuti ndibwino kwambiri kuganizira za zabwino (Afilipi 4:8) m’malo moganizira za kusaganiza za chinachake! Ndipo kudalitsa malingaliro anu enieni ndi kulingalira kumathandiza kwambiri pokwaniritsa cholinga cha chiyero.

Nthawi ina pamene ndinali kumvetsa za kulephera mu moyo wanga woganiza, mawu a nyimbo yakale inavutitsa mtima wanga:

Khalani masomphenya anga, O Ambuye wa mtima wanga

Sindinakhale china chirichonse kwa ine kupatula kuti Inu muli

Inu mukuganiza bwino kwanga masana kapena usiku

Kuwuka kapena kugona, Kukhalapo Kwanu Kuwala Kwanga.

Madalitso Ambiri Athu

Kodi mumadziwa ndimeyi: ‘Mtima wokondwa umachita zabwino, ngati mankhwala’ (Miyambo 17:22)? Baibulo likuyankhula kuti matupi athu amayankha ndi mawu abwino ndi malingaliro:

Ndikudalitsa thupi langa. Lero ndimaphwanya zofooka kwa ine ndekha. Ndikudalitsa thanzi langa labwino.

Nthawi ina ndinkangowonera vidiyo yokhudza munthu yemwe anali ndi vuto lalikulu la mtima. Kudutsa kwake kunali kutatsekedwa. Anadalitsa mitsempha yake kwa miyezi itatu, kuwauza iwo kuti apangidwe mochititsa mantha komanso modabwitsa. Atabwerera kwa dokotala, anapeza kuti anali atadutsa modabwitsa!

Ndinaganiza kuti ndikuyesera izi khungu langa. Ndinali ndi vuto la kuwonongeka kwa dzuwa kuyambira ndili mwana. Tsopano mu ukalamba wanga, kukula kwakung’ono kunkafika pa mapewa ndi kumbuyo kwanga, kufunikira kuti ndikhale chisanu pa miyezi ingapo iliyonse. Ndinaganiza zodalitsa khungu langa. Poyamba ndinangolidalitsa m’dzina la Yesu. Koma kenako ndinawerenga za mtundu wa khungu umene unasintha maganizo anga. Ndinazindikira kuti, ngakhale kuti ndinali ndi chikhomo, sindinadziwe zambiri za thupi lalikulu kwambiri m’thupi langa. Ine ndinali nditayankhula za izo, koma ine sindinayambe ndalankhulapo izo. Ndipo ndikukayikira kuti ndinanena chilichonse chabwino ponena izi – m’malo mwake ndinadandaula. Sindinayamikire.

Koma khungu ndi zodabwitsa. Ndi njira yoyendera mpweya ndi njira zowonongeka. Amateteza thupi kuti lisagwidwe ndi majeremusi ndipo imachiritsa. Imateteza ndi kuteteza mkati mwathu ndipo imachita bwino kwambiri.

Zikomo Mulungu chifukwa cha khungu – makwinya ndi zonse. Dalitsani khungu lanu.

Pambuyo pa miyezi ingapo ya mtundu uwu wa dalitso, khungu langa tsopano lachiritsidwa, koma chinsinsi ndi pamene ndinayamba kuyamikira ndikuthokoza. Ndi yopangidwa mochititsa mantha. Phunziro lenileni ndithu. Kudandaula kumadzudzula Ufumu wa Mulungu; kuyamikira kumakopeka iyo.

Pano pali umboni wochokera kwa mzanga, David Goodman:

Miyezi ingapo yapitayi ndinamva Richard akulalikira pa nkhani ya dalitso – nkhani yosautsa, koma yomwe inayambanso chifukwa cha njira yomwe idachokera. Cholinga chodalitsa chimenechi sichinali chinthu chomwe timapempha Mulungu, koma kuti ife monga akhristu tili ndi udindo, ngati sitili ndi udindo, kulowa mu dziko lino lakugwa ndipo, monga ambassyendo a Khristu, timakhudza miyoyo ya ena anthu a mu Ufumu wa Mulungu. Titha kupita ndi kuwadalitsa m’miyoyo yawo, ndikuwululira Khristu nthawi yomweyo.

Lingaliro ndilobwino pamene wina akulingalira ena, koma lingaliro ili linamenyana ndi khoma lamatala kwa ine pamene ndimayenera kuganizira dalitso langa. Sindingathe kuganiza kuti sindinali woyenera, kuti ndinali wodzikonda, kuti ndikunyalanyaza Mulungu. Malingaliro anga anasintha pamene ndinawona kuti ife, monga akhristu, ndife chilengedwe chatsopano, chobadwanso kachiwiri ndi kulengedwa kwa cholinga chimene Mulungu watikonzera. Kuti zikhale choncho, thupi lomwe tiri nalo tsopano ndilo lomwe tiyenera kusamala ndikuliyang’anira-tiri tsopano, pambuyo pake, kachisi wokhalamo Mzimu Woyera.

Izi zinati, ndinayamba kuyesera kochepa – tsiku lililonse ndimadzuka, ndikudalitsa gawo la thupi langa, zikomo chifukwa cha ntchito yake; Chitamandeni chifukwa cha ntchito yabwino. Ndikuyamika zala zanga chifukwa cha zovuta zawo, chifukwa ali ndi luso lochita ntchito zonse zofunika ndi zina. Ndikuyamika ndikuthokoza miyendo yanga chifukwa cha ntchito yopanda ntchito yopititsa patsogolo komanso kuthamanga, chifukwa chakuti amatha kugwira ntchito mogwirizana. Ndinayamika thupi langa chifukwa mbali zonse zimagwirira ntchito limodzi. Chinthu chimodzi chosamvetseka chinatuluka mwa izi.

Chifukwa chakuti ndinkamverera bwino kwambiri pa moyo wanga komanso anthu, ndinaganiza zowawa zomwe ndakhala ndikuchita kwa miyezi ingapo m’munsi mwanga pansi – kupweteka komwe kunkawoneka m’phfupa komwe kunkafunika kuzungulidwa nthawi zonse kuti mwina ndi-tially kumasula nthawi zonse throbbing. Ndinayang’ana pa malowa, ndikuyamika thupi langa chifukwa cha machiritso ake, chifukwa cha kupirira kwake kuti agonjetse zinthu zomwe zimaponyedwa motsutsana nazo, pothandizira zomwe zigawo zina zingapereke pamene kukonzanso kungapangidwe kwa wina. Patatha milungu itatu chabe ndinadzuka m’mawa wina ndikuzindikira kuti sindinamva ululu mdzanja langa; kuti mapawo adatha kwathunthu ndipo sanabwerere.

Ndinazindikira kuti ngakhale pali nthawi ndi malo kuti mphatso ya machiritso iwonetsedwe kupyolera mu chikhulupiliro kwa ena, palinso njira ina yomwe ifeyo aliyense angagwiritsire ntchito mphatso ya machiritso mwaife tokha. Ndi mwana wamwamuna modzichepetsa, kuti tikhulupirire zomwe Mulungu wapereka kwa matupi athu atsopano, kuti tikhoze kupita mu chidaliro mu njira yatsopano yamoyo.

Kudalitsa Banja Lanu, Ukwati ndi Ana

Nyumba Yanu – Nyumba Yoyamba Madalitso

Ndibwino kuti mudalitse nyumba yanu ndikubwezeretsanso madalitso kamodzi pachaka. Kudalitsa malo omwe mumakhala kumaphatikizapo kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu yanu ya uzimu mwa Khristu Yesu kuti mudzipatulire ndikupatulira malo amenewo kwa Ambuye. Tikukuitanani kuti Mzimu Woyera ubwere, ndikukakamiza china chirichonse chimene sichiri cha Mulungu kuti ndichoke.

Nyumba sikuti ndi chabe njerwa ndi matope – izo zimagwirizana ndi munthu. Monga momwe muli ndi mwayi wovomerezeka panyumba panu tsopano, wina amakhala ndi chilolezo chalamulo, kapena katundu wanu, pamaso panu. Zinthu zikhoza kuti zinachitika mmalo omwe amabweretsa madalitso kapena matemberero. Ziribe kanthu zomwe zinachitika, ndi ulamuliro wanu womwe umatsimikizira kuti moyo wauzimu udzakhala wotani kuyambira tsopano. Ngati pali zochitika zauchiwanda zomwe zikuchitikabe kuchokera kwa mwiniwake wam’mbuyomu, mutha kuziwona – ndipo ziri kwa inu kuyendetsa mphamvuzi.

Inde, muyenera kuganizira zomwe mphamvu zamademoni mungakhale mosadziŵa kupereka nyumba yanu nokha. Kodi muli ndi zithunzi zopanda umulungu, zojambulajambula, mabuku, nyimbo kapena ma DVD? Ndi mapulogalamu ati a TV amene mumaloleza? Kodi pali tchimo m’nyumba mwako?

Pano pali dalitso losavuta limene mungapange pamene mukuyenda m’chipinda chanu m’chipinda ndi chipinda:

Ndikudalitsa nyumba iyi, nyumba yathu. Ndikulengeza kuti nyumba iyi ndi ya Mulungu, ndikuipatulira kwa Mulungu ndikuyiyika pansi pa Utsogoleri wa Yesu Khristu. Ndi nyumba yodalitsika.

Ndimathyola temberero lililonse m’nyumba muno ndi mwazi wa Yesu. Ndimatenga ulamuliro pa chiwanda chilichonse m’dzina la Yesu ndipo ndimawalamula kuti achoke tsopano komanso kuti asabwerere. Ine ndimatulutsa mzimu uliwonse wa mikangano, magawano ndi kusagwirizana. Ndikutaya umphawi.

Bwerani Mzimu Woyera ndikuchotserani chirichonse chomwe sichiri cha Inu. Lembani nyumbayi ndi Kukhalapo Kwako. Mulole zipatso zanu zikhale: chikondi, chimwemwe, mtendere, kukoma mtima, kuleza mtima, ubwino, kufatsa, kukhulupirika ndi kudziletsa. Ndikudalitsa nyumba iyi ndi mtendere wodzaza ndi chikondi chochuluka. Mulole onse amene abwera pano aziwone Kukhalapo kwanu ndi kudalitsika. Mu Dzina la Yesu, ameni.

Ndayendayenda malire a malo anga, ndikudalitsa ndikugwiritsa ntchito mwazi wa Yesu Khristu kuti mutetezedwe, komanso anthu omwe ali mmenemo, kuchokera ku zowawa zonse ndi masoka achilengedwe.

Ukwati Wanu

Tili ndi mtundu waukwati umene timadalitsa kapena tili ndi banja lomwe timatemberera.

Nditangoyamba kuwerenga mawuwa mu Power of Blessing ndi Kerry Kirkwood, ndinadabwa kwambiri. Kodi izi ndi zoona?

Ndapereka lingaliro lochuluka, ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti mawu awa ndi owona – chisangalalo chilichonse ndi banja lathu kapena ana athu chiyenera chifukwa cha ife osawadalitsa! Mwa madalitso, timalandira zolinga zabwino za Mulungu kwa ife muyeso yonse – kuphatikizapo moyo wautali ndi ubale wabwino. Timakhala ogawanika, kapena abwenzi, ndi zomwe timadalitsa.

Samalani chifukwa cha matemberero. Amuna ndi akazi amadziwana bwino kwambiri. Timadziwa mabatani onse otentha. Kodi mumanena chilichonse chonga ichi? Kodi zinthu izi ndizinenedwapo pa iwe? ‘Simumamvetsera’, ‘kukumbukira kwanu kuli koopsa’. ‘Simungathe kuphika’, ‘Simungathe kutero’ … Ngati atero nthawi zambiri, mawu awa amakhala matemberero ndi kukhala oona.

Musatemberere, dalitsani. Kumbukirani, ngati mutemberera (kulankhula mawu akufa) simungalandire madalitso omwe Mulungu akufuna. Choipitsitsa kuposa icho, kutukwana kumatikhudza ife kuposa momwe ife tingatembereredwe. Kodi izi zingakhale chifukwa chimodzi chomwe mapemphero sakuyankhidwa?

Kuphunzira kudalitsa kungakhale ngati kuphunzira chinenero chatsopano – zovuta poyamba. Mwachitsanzo:

Nicole, ndikudalitseni m’dzina la Atate, Mwana ndi Mzimu Woyera. Ndikumasula ubwino wonse wa Mulungu pa inu. Mulole zolinga za Mulungu pa moyo wanu zikhale zovuta.

Ndidalitsa mphatso yanu yosonkhana ndi anthu achikondi, mphatso yanu yochereza alendo. Ndikudalitsa mphatso yanu yopanga anthu kukhala omasuka. Ndikulengeza kuti ndiwe mkazi wa Mulungu, kuti mumulandire anthu monga momwe angafunire. Ndikukudalitsani ndi mphamvu kuti mupitirize kuchita izi ngakhale zaka zapitazi. Ndikudalitseni ndi thanzi komanso moyo wautali. Ndikudalitseni ndi mafuta achimwemwe.

Ana Anu

Pali njira zambiri zodalitsa mwana. Apa ndikudalitsa mdzukulu wanga, yemwe ali ndi zaka zinayi:

Ashley, ndikudalitsa moyo wanu. Mukhale mkazi wabwino wa Mulungu. Ndikudalitsa malingaliro anu kuti akhalebe omveka komanso kuti mukhale ndi nzeru ndi kuzindikira muzisankha zonse. Ndikudalitsa thupi lanu kuti likhale loyera mpaka kukwatirana ndi kukhala wathanzi komanso wamphamvu. Ndikudalitsa manja ndi miyendo yanu kuti muchite ntchito yomwe Mulungu anakonza kuti muchite. Ndikudalitsa pakamwa panu. Lolankhule mawu a choonadi ndi chilimbikitso. Ndikudalitsa mtima wanu kuti mukhale woona kwa Ambuye. Ndikudalitsa mamuna wanu komanso moyo wanu wamtsogolo ndi ulemelero ndi umodzi. Ndimakonda zonse za iwe, Ashley, ndipo ndikunyada kukhala bambo wako.

Inde, kumene mwana akuvutika kudera lina tingathe kuwadalitsa moyenerera. Ngati akuvutika kuti aphunzire kusukulu, tikhoza kudalitsa malingaliro awo kuti tiphunzire ndikumbukira mfundo zomwe zimachokera ku chiphunzitsochi; ngati akuzunzidwa, titha kuwadalitsa kuti akule mu nzeru ndi msinkhu komanso kuti azikonda Mulungu ndi ana ena; ndi zina zotero.

Ndikukumbukira ndikuyankhula ndi mkazi wabwino wa Mulungu za mdzukulu wake. Chilichonse chimene ananena ponena za iye chinakhudza zolakwa zake, maganizo ake opandukira, komanso mavuto omwe anali nawo kusukulu. Iye adatumizidwa kumsasa kuti amuthandize kuti adziwongole bwino, ndipo adatumizidwa kunyumba chifukwa adali wosokoneza.

Nditamvetsera kwa kanthawi, ndinamuuza mkaziyo kuti akudzudzula mdzukulu wake mwachindunji kudzera mwa njira yomwe anali kuyankhula za iye, komanso kuti akum’manga ndi mawu ake. Kotero iye anasiya kulankhula molakwika, ndipo mmalo mwake iye anamudalitsa mwadala. Mwamuna wake, agogo ake aamuna, anachita chimodzimodzi. Pasanathe masiku, mnyamatayo anasintha kwambiri, kubwerera kumsasa ndikukula. Lankhulani za kuyankha mofulumira kwa mphamvu zodabwitsa za madalitso!

Chimodzi mwa zinthu zabwino kwambiri zomwe bambo angapatse ana ake ndi madalitso a atate. Ndaphunzira za izi kuchokera ku Madalitso a Atate a Frank Hammond, omwe ndi buku lodabwitsa. Popanda kudalitsidwa ndi atate nthawi zonse kumakhala chinthu chosoweka – chosoweka chilipo kuti palibe china chingadzaze. Abambo, ikani manja pa ana anu, ndi mamembala ena, (mwachitsanzo, ikani dzanja lanu pamutu kapena m’mapewa) ndipo muwadalitse nthawi zambiri. Dziwani zinthu zabwino zomwe Mulungu adzachita kwa inu ndi iwo.

Kulikonse kumene ndikugawana uthengawu, ndikufunsa abambo ndi abambo akuluakulu, ‘Ndi anthu angati pano amene abambo awo anaika manja awo pa iwo ndikuwadalitsa?’ Anthu ochepa okha amalimbirira manja awo. Ndiye ndikuyankhira funsoli mozungulira kuti: ‘Ndi anthu angati pano omwe bambo awo sanawaike manja awo ndikuwadalitsa?’ Pafupifupi aliyense amakwezera dzanja.

Ndiye ndikufunsa ngati angandilole kuti ndikhale atate wawo wauzimu mu nthawi yomweyi – choloweza mmalo – kotero kuti, ndi mphamvu ya Mzimu Woyera, ndiwadalitse ndi madalitso omwe sanakhale nawo. Yankho lakhala lodabwitsa: misozi, chiwombolo, chimwemwe, machiritso. Zodabwitsa!

Ngati mukulakalaka madalitso a bambo, monga momwe ndinachitira, ndiye nenani izi momveka bwino. Ndi dalitso limene ndasintha kuchokera m’buku la Frank Hammond.

Madalitso a Atate

Mwana wanga, ndimakukondani! Ndiwe wapadera. Ndiwe mphatso yochokera kwa Mulungu. Ndikuthokoza Mulungu pondilola kuti ndikhale bambo kwa inu. Ndikusangalala ndi inu ndipo ndikukondwera chifukwa cha inu. Ndipo tsopano ndikudalitseni.

Ndikukudalitsani ndi machiritso a mabala onse a mtima – zilonda za kukanidwa, kunyalanyazidwa ndi kuzunzidwa kumene mwakumana nawo. M’dzina la Yesu, ndikuphwanya mphamvu ya mawu onse okhwima ndi osalungama omwe akunenedwa pa inu.

Ndikudalitseni ndi mtendere wodzaza, mtendere umene Kalonga Wamtendere yekha angapereke.

Ndikudalitsa moyo wanu ndi chipatso: chipatso chabwino, zipatso zambiri ndi zipatso zomwe zatsala.

Ndikukudalitsani bwino. Ndiwe mutu osati mchira; iwe uli pamwamba ndipo osati pansi.

Ndikudalitsa mphatso zomwe Mulungu wakupatsani. Ndikudalitseni ndi nzeru kupanga zosankha zabwino ndikukulitsa mphamvu zanu zonse mwa Khristu.

Ndikukudalitsani ndi chitukuko chokwanira, kukuthandizani kukhala dalitso kwa ena.

Ndikukudalitsani ndi mphamvu ya uzimu, chifukwa ndinu kuwala kwa dziko lapansi ndi mchere wa dziko lapansi.

Ndikukudalitsani ndi kumvetsetsa kwakukulu kwa uzimu ndikuyenda moyandikana ndi Mbuye wanu. Simudzakhumudwa kapena kukhumudwa, chifukwa Mau a Mulungu adzakhala nyali ya mapazi anu ndi kuunika kwa njira yanu.

Ndikukudalitsani kuti muwone akazi / amuna monga momwe Yesu adachitira ndi kuchita.

Ndikukudalitsani kuti muwone, kukoka ndikukondwerera golidi mwa anthu, osati dothi.

Ndikukudalitsani kuti mumasulire Mulungu kuntchito – osati kungopereka umboni, kapena kutsanzira khalidwe labwino, komanso kulemekeza Mulungu ndi kupambana ndi kulenga kwa ntchito yanu.

Ndikudalitseni ndi abwenzi abwino. Inu mumakondwera ndi Mulungu ndi munthu.

Ndikudalitseni ndi chikondi chokwanira ndi chokwanira, chimene mudzatumikire chisomo cha Mulungu kwa ena. Inu mudzatumikira chisomo cholimbikitsa cha Mulungu kwa ena. Iwe ndiwe wodala, mwana wanga! Mudalitsidwa ndi madalitso onse auzimu mwa Khristu Yesu. Ameni!

Umboni wa Mtengo wa Madalitso a Atate

Ndinasinthidwa ndi madalitso a atate. Kuyambira ndili wobadwa sindinamvepo uthenga woterewu ukulalikidwa. Sindinayambe ndakhalapo ndi bambo wamoyo kuti alankhule mmoyo wanga mpaka kumene ndikukhala tsopano. Mulungu anakugwiritsani ntchito, Richard, kuti andibweretse kumalo kumene ndimayenera kupemphera ndikukhala ndi atate wauzimu akudalitsa madalitso a abambo pa moyo wanga. Pamene mudatulutsa madalitso a bambo ndi mwana, mtima wanga unalimbikitsidwa ndipo tsopano ndine wokondwa komanso wodala. – M’busa Wycliffe Alumasa, Kenya

Ndinali ulendo wautali komanso wovuta kuyenda ulendo wanga kudutsa kuvutika maganizo; nkhondo inamenyana pazinthu zambiri-malingaliro, mzimu, thupi. Kuchiritsa zanga zapita kumakhala chofunikira ndipo palibe chinal Chotsatira chofunika kwambiri kuposa kukukhululukira abambo – osati zokhumudwitsa zomwe adazichita kale koma makamaka chifukwa cha zinthu zomwe sanazichite – kutaya kwake. Bambo anga sanandiuze kuti anandikonda. Iye anali ndi nkhawa. Sankatha kupeza mau achikondi, osamala, amalingaliro akuti – ngakhale ndikulakalaka mumtima mwanga kuti ndiwamve.

Ngakhale kupyolera mu chikhululukiro ndi kupulumuka kwa mkati ndikudandaula kwanga, ndikudakali ndi zizindikiro zina za thupi – chachikulu chomwe chimakhala chosautsa mtima. Ndinali nditapatsidwa mankhwala ndi mankhwala kuchokera kwa dokotala ndi zina koma pang’ono chabe, zomwe ndinauzidwa kuti ndiziyang’anira zizindikiro, mosiyana ndi kupereka mankhwala.

Mnzanga wina, Richard, anali kundiuza nkhani za madalitso a bambo, komanso zomwe anthu adayankha. Chinachake mu mzimu wanga chinagwira lingalirolo. Ndinazindikira kuti ngakhale kuti ndinakhululukira atate wanga chifukwa cha mpata umene adachoka, sindinayambe ndadzaza chilakolako cha moyo wanga.

Ndipo kotero izo zinachitika. Mmawa wina m’chipinda chodyera, pa chakudya chamadzulo, Richard analoŵa mu nsapato bambo anga sakanandidalitsa ndikamudalitsa. Mzimu Woyera unagwa pa ine ndikukhala ndi ine tsiku lonselo. Icho chinali chomuchitikira chokongola ndipo gawo ilo la moyo wanga lomwe linali likulira linali mwamtendere.

Zotsatira zosayembekezereka komabe zizindikiro zanga za matenda a m’mimba zinasiya kwathunthu. Mankhwala anga komanso zakudya za dokotala zinatayidwa kunja. Pamene moyo wanga unalandira chomwe unali kufuna, thupi langa linachiritsidwa. – Ryan

Kudalitsa Ena Mwa Kumasula Ulosi

Ngakhale kuti ndakupatsani zitsanzo kuti ndikuthandizeni, ndibwino kupempha Mzimu Woyera kuti akuthandizeni kukhala ngati pakamwa pa Mulungu, kulengeza ndi kumasula cholinga cha Mulungu kapena ‘mawu mu nyengo’ (mawu olondola pa nthawi yoyenera). Ngati izi ziloleza, yambitsani mzimu wanu ndi kupemphera mu malirime kapena kupembedza.

Mungayambe kugwiritsa ntchito mitundu yosiyanasiyana pamwambapa, koma khulupirirani kuti Mzimu Woyera adzakutsogolerani. Mvetserani ku mtima wake. Inu mukhoza kuyamba mwakuya, koma posachedwa mudzagwira mtima wa Ambuye.

Kudalitsa Ntchito Yanu

Bwererani ku Gawo 1 ndikusintha chitsanzo chomwe ndinapereka, kuchokera pa zomwe ndikukumana nazo, ndikukumana ndi zochitika zanu. Khalani omasuka ku zomwe Mulungu amakuwonetsani – Angasinthe malingaliro anu. Madalitso si mtundu wina wa matsenga. Mwachitsanzo, Mulungu sadzachititsa anthu kugula zomwe sakusowa kapena kuzifuna. Ndipo Mulungu sadzadalitsa ulesi ndi kusakhulupirika. Koma ngati mutakumana ndi zikhalidwe Zake, ndiye kuti mudalitse bizinesi yanu – kuti Mulungu akuthandizeni kuti muchotse komwe kuli tsopano kumene akufunira. Mvetserani uphungu Wake kapena uphungu wa anthu omwe Iye amatumiza kwa inu. Tsegulani. Komanso muyembekezere chisomo chake, chifukwa Iye amakukondani ndipo amafuna kuti mupambane.

Ndalandira umboni wochokera kwa Ben Fox:

Ntchito yanga yeniyeni mu malonda a katundu inapita-kusintha m›zaka zingapo zapitazi ndipo pakhala pali kutaya kwakukulu mu bizinesi yanga. Ndinapita kwa anthu angapo kukapempherera ntchito yanga chifukwa ntchito yanga inali kuchepa mpaka pamene ndinali ndi nkhawa ndikuda nkhaŵa.

Pa nthawi yomweyo, kumayambiriro kwa chaka cha 2015, ndinamva Bambo Brunton akulalikira mauthenga angapo ponena za kudalitsa ntchito, bizinesi, banja komanso malo ena. Mpaka nthawi imeneyo, cholinga cha mapemphero anga chinali kupempha Mulungu kuti andithandize m›madera amenewa. Lingaliro lakuti ife tikuyankhula madalitso silinaphunzitsidwe kwa ine, koma tsopano ndikutha kuona kuti zinalembedwa mu Baibulo lonse, ndipo ndikudziwa kuti Mulungu amatiitana, ndipo watipatsa ulamuliro, kuti tichite zimenezi m›dzina la Yesu. Kotero ine ndinayamba kudalitsa ntchito yanga_kuti ndiyankhule mawu a Mulungu pa izo ndi kuyamika Mulungu chifukwa cha izo. Ndinapitirizabe kudalitsa ntchito yanga m›mawa uliwonse komanso ndikuthokoza Mulungu chifukwa cha bizinesi yatsopano, ndikumupempha kuti anditumizire makasitomala omwe ndingamuthandize.

Pa miyezi khumi ndi iwiri yotsatira, mphamvu yanga ya ntchito inakula kwambiri ndipo, kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, ndakhala ndikulimbikitsidwa kuti ndiyambe kugwira ntchito yomwe ndafika. Ndaphunzira kuti pali njira yowonjezeramo Mulungu mu ntchito zathu zonse, ndikudalitsa ntchito yathu ndi gawo la zomwe Mulungu amatiitana kuti tichite. Choncho ndikupatsa Mulungu ngongole yonse. Ndinayambanso kuitana Mzimu Woyera kuntchito yanga, ndikupempha nzeru ndi zolingalira. Makamaka, ndazindikira kuti pamene ndikupempha Mzimu Woyera kuti andithandize ndi ntchito yabwino, ndimayimaliza nthawi isanakwane.

Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti chiphunzitso cha dalitso, ndi momwe tingachitire, chaiwalika ndi mipingo yambiri, monga momwe Akristu ena omwe ndimawafotokozera sakudziwa. Madalitso ntchito yanga tsopano yakhala chizoloŵezi cha tsiku ndi tsiku, monga kudalitsa ena. Ndimayang›ananso-ndikudikirira ndikuyembekezera chipatso mwa anthu ndi zinthu zomwe ndikudalitsa ngati zikugwirizana ndi Mawu a Mulungu komanso m›dzina la Yesu.

Kudalitsa Anthu aDera

Ndikuganiza za tchalitchi – kapena bungwe lofanana – kudalitsa dera lomwe likugwira ntchito.

Anthu a …………… (ammudzi), tikukudalitsani m’dzina la Yesu kuti mumudziwe Mulungu, kuti mudziwe zolinga Zake pa moyo wanu, ndikudziwe madalitso Ake kwa aliyense wa inu, mabanja anu komanso zochitika zanu zonse miyoyo.

Timadalitsa banja lililonse mu …………… (dera). Timadalitsa ukwati uliwonse ndipo timadalitsa ubale pakati pa mamembala a mibadwo yosiyanasiyana.

Timadalitsa thanzi lanu ndi chuma chanu.

Timadalitsa ntchito ya manja anu. Timadalitsa ntchito iliyonse yabwino yomwe mukugwira nayo. Mulole iwo apambane.

Timadalitsa ophunzira ku sukulu zanu; Timawadalitsa kuti aphunzire ndi kumvetsetsa zomwe amaphunzitsidwa. Mulole iwo akule mu nzeru ndi mu msinkhu ndi moyanjidwa ndi Mulungu ndi munthu. Timadalitsa aphunzitsi ndikupemphera kuti sukulu ikhoza kukhala malo abwino komanso abwino, kumene kukhulupirira Mulungu ndi Yesu kungaphunzitsidwe bwino.

Timalankhula ndi mitima ya anthu onse omwe ali m’dera lino. Timawadalitsa kuti atsegulidwe kwa Mzimu Woyera ndikukhala omvera ku mau a Mulungu. Timawadalitsa ndi kuwonjezera pa Ufumu wa Kumwamba umene timakumana nawo pano pa …………… (tchalitchi).

Mwachiwonekere dalitso lamtundu uwu liyenera kukhazikitsidwa pamtundu wa mtundu wina. Ngati ndi malo olima, mungadalitse dzikolo ndi zinyama; ngati ndi dera kumene kusowa ntchito kuli kofala, ndiye dalitsani malonda am’deralo kuti apange ntchito. Ikani madalitso ku zosowa. Osadandaula ngati akuyenerera kapena ayi! Anthu adzazindikira m’mitima yawo momwe madalitso adachokera.

Kudalitsa Dziko

Mu Genesis, tikuwona Mulungu akudalitsa anthu, kuwapatsa ulamuliro pa dziko ndi zamoyo zonse, ndi kuwapatsa iwo kuti abereke ndi kuchulukitsa. Ichi chinali mbali ya ulemerero wapachiyambi waumunthu.

Nditakhala ku Kenya posachedwapa, ndinakumana ndi mmishonale amene adatenga ana aamsewu ndikuwaphunzitsa za ulimi. Anandiuza nkhani ya gulu lachi Islam limene linati dziko lawo linatembereredwa, chifukwa sizinali kukula. Mnzanga wamishonale ndi gulu lake lachikhristu adadalitsa dziko ndipo linakhala lachonde. Ichi chinali chisonyezero champhamvu cha mphamvu ya Mulungu yotulutsidwa ndi dalitso.

Ali ku Kenya, ndinayendanso kuzungulira mwana wamasiye wamtchalitchi wathu wothandizira, kudalitsa munda wawo wamunda, munda wawo, makoko awo ndi ng’ombe zawo. (Ndadalitsa mitengo yanga ya zipatso ndi zotsatira zabwino.)

Geoff Wiklund akufotokozera nkhani ya tchalitchi ku Philippines chomwe chinadalitsa gawo la tchalitchi pakati pa chilala chachikulu. Dziko lawo linali malo okha omwe analandira mvula. Alimi oyandikana nawo adabwera kudzasonkhanitsa madzi mpunga wawo kuchokera m’matanthwe omwe adayandikana ndi malo a tchalitchi. Ichi ndi chozizwitsa china chodabwitsa chomwe Mulungu adatulutsidwa kudzera mdalitso.

Kudalitsa Ambuye

Ngakhale kuti ndazisiya izi kuti ndikhalepo, ziyenera kubwera poyamba. Chifukwa chomwe ndikukhalira, komabe, chifukwa sichikugwirizana ndi chitsanzo cha ‘kulankhula zolinga kapena kukonda Mulungu pa wina kapena chinachake’. Mmalo mwake, ndi lingaliro la ‘kukondwera’.

Timadalitsa bwanji Mulungu? Njira imodzi yochitira izi ndiyoyikidwa mu Salmo 103:

Dalitsani Ambuye O moyo wanga … ndipo musaiwale madalitso Ake onse…

Kodi phindu la Ambuye ku miyoyo yathu ndi liti? Amakhululukira, amachiritsa, amawombola, akorona, amakhutira, amakhalanso ndi moyo…

Ndimachita chizolowezi kukumbukira ndi kuyamika Mulungu tsiku ndi tsiku chifukwa cha zomwe amachita ndi kudzera mwa ine. Ndimakumbukira ndikuyamikira zonse zomwe Iye ali nazo. Izi zimadalitsa Iye, komanso inenso! Kodi mumamva bwanji mwana akamayamika kapena akukuyamikirani pazinthu zomwe mwachita kapena kunena? Zimasangalatsa mtima wanu ndikukupangitsani kufuna kuchita zambiri.

Mawu Otsiriza ochokera kwa Wophunzira

Ndi kovuta kufotokoza momwe madalitso adasinthira moyo wanga. Mwachidziwitso changa chachidule mpaka pano, palibe amene wataya madalitso pamene ndapereka kupereka – ndinakhala ndi mwayi wodalitsa munthu wa Muslim. Kupereka kupempherera madalitso pa moyo wa munthu kumatsegula chitseko … ndi njira yophweka, yopanda mantha yobweretsera Ufumu wa Mulungu kukhala mkhalidwe, mumoyo wa munthu. Kwa ine, kukhala wokhoza kupemphera mdalitso kwawonjezera chida chapadera kwambiri ku chida changa chauzimu … ziri ngati gawo la moyo wanga lomwe linkasowa ndipo tsopano lasungidwa m’malo … – Sandi

MAPULOGALAMU

- Ganizilani za munthu yemwe wakukhumudwitsani – khululukitsani ngati kuli koyenera, koma pitirizani kupitilira ndi kuwadalitsa.

- Ganizirani zomwe mumanena nthawi zonse pamene mumatemberera ena kapena inu nokha. Kodi muchita chiyani za izo?

- Lembani dalitso lanu, inu nokha, ndi ana anu.

- Khalani ndi munthu wina ndipo mukhale omasuka kuti mukanenere za iwo. Funsani Mulungu kuti vumbulutso la chinthu china ndi cholimbikitsa kwa munthu ameneyo. Yambani ndi kulankhula mwachidule, mwachitsanzo, ‘Ndikukudalitsani m’dzina la Yesu. Mulole zolinga za Mulungu ndi zolinga za moyo wanu zikhale zomveka…’ ndipo dikirani, khalani oleza mtima. Kumbukirani kuti muli ndi malingaliro a Khristu. Kenaka musinthane, ndipo muwuze munthu wina kuti akudalitseni.

- Mu mpingo wanu, pangani madalitso a mgwirizano kuti mulalikire ndi kuchiritsa dera lanu, kapena kudalitsani masautso omwe muli nawo kale.

MMENE MUNGAKHALIRE MKHRISTU

Buku laling’ono limeneli linalembedwa kwa Akhristu. Ndi ‘Akhrisitu’, sindikutanthauza anthu omwe amakhala moyo wabwino. Ndikutanthauza anthu omwe ‘abadwanso’ mwa Mzimu wa Mulungu ndipo amakonda ndi kutsatira Yesu Khristu.

Anthu amapangidwa m’magulu atatu: mzimu, moyo ndi thupi. Gawo lauzimu linapangidwa kuti lidziwe ndikuyanjana ndi Mulungu woyera, yemwe ali Mzimu. Anthu anapangidwa kuti akhale paubwenzi wapamtima ndi Mulungu, mzimu ndi Mzimu. Komabe, tchimo laumunthu limasiyanitsa ife ndi Mulungu, chifukwa cha imfa ya mzimu wathu ndi imfa ya mgonero ndi Mulungu.

Chifukwa chake, anthu amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito miyoyo yawo ndi matupi awo okha. Moyo umaphatikizapo chidziwitso, chifuniro ndi zowawa. Zotsatira za izi zikuwonekera kwambiri padziko lapansi: kudzikonda, kunyada, umbombo, njala, nkhondo, ndi kusowa mtendere weniweni ndi tanthauzo.

Koma Mulungu anali ndi dongosolo lowombola anthu. Mulungu Atate adatuma Mwana Wake, Yesu, amenenso ali Mulungu, kuti abwere padziko lapansi monga munthu woti atiwonetsere zomwe Mulungu anali – ‘Ngati mwandiwona Ine mwawona Atate’ ndikudzipangira yekha zotsatira za tchimo lathu. Imfa yake yoopsya pamtanda idakonzedwa kuyambira pachiyambi ndipo idanenedweratu mwatsatanetsatane mu Chipangano Chakale. Analipira mtengo wa tchimo la anthu. Chilungamo cha Mulungu chinakhutitsidwa.

Koma Mulungu adamuukitsa Yesu kwa akufa. Yesu amalonjeza kuti iwo omwe akhulupirira mwa Iye adzaukitsidwanso kwa akufa kuti akhale ndi moyo wosatha ndi Iye. Iye amatipatsa ife Mzimu Wake tsopano, monga chitsimikizo, kuti ife timudziwe Iye ndi kuyenda naye Iye kwa moyo wathu wonse wa padziko lapansi.

Kotero apo ife tiri nacho chofunikira cha Uthenga Wabwino wa Yesu Khristu. Ngati muvomereza ndi kuvomereza tchimo lanu, ngati mumakhulupirira kuti Yesu adatenga chilango chanu pa Iye pamtanda ndi kuti adaukitsidwa kwa akufa, ndiye kuti chilungamo chake chidzawerengedwa kwa inu. Mulungu adzatumiza Mzimu Wake Woyera kuti ubwezeretsenso mzimu wanu waumunthu – ndicho chimene chikutanthawuza kubadwanso mwatsopano – ndipo mudzatha kuyamba kudziwa ndi kuyankhulana ndi Mulungu mwatsatanetsatane – ndicho chifukwa chake adakulengerani inu poyamba! Pamene thupi lanu lifa, Khristu adzakuukitsani ndi kukupatsani inu ulemerero, wosawonongeka. Zopatsa chidwi!

Pamene mukupitirizabe padziko lapansi, Mzimu Woyera (yemwe ndi Mulungu) adzagwira ntchito mwa inu (kukuyeretsani ndikukupangani monga Yesu mu khalidwe) ndi kudzera mwa inu (kukhala dalitso kwa ena).

Amene amasankha kusamvera zomwe Yesu adalonjeza adzapita ku chiweruzo ndi zotsatira zake zonse. Inu simukuzifuna izo.

Pano pali pemphero lomwe mungapemphe. Mukamapemphera moona mtima mudzabadwanso mwatsopano.

Wokondedwa Mulungu Kumwamba, ndikubwera kwa Inu m’dzina la Yesu. Ndikuvomereza kwa Inu kuti ndine wochimwa. (Vomerezani machimo anu onse amadziwika.) Ndine wowawa kwambiri chifukwa cha machimo anga komanso moyo umene ndakhala nawo popanda Inu ndipo ndikupepesa chifukwa cha chikhululukiro chanu.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti Mwana Wanu yekhayo, Yesu Khristu, adakhetsa mwazi wake wamtengo wapatali pamtanda ndikufa chifukwa cha machimo anga, ndipo tsopano ndikulolera kuchoka ku tchimo langa.

Inu munati mu Baibulo (Aroma 10:9) kuti ngati tilengeza kuti Yesu ndi Ambuye ndi kukhulupirira m’mitima mwathu kuti Mulungu adamuukitsa Yesu kwa akufa, tidzapulumutsidwa.

Pakali pano ndikuvomereza Yesu ngati Ambuye wa moyo wanga. Ndikukhulupirira kuti Mulungu anamuukitsa Yesu kwa akufa. Nthawi yomweyi ndikulandira Yesu Khristu ngati Mpulumutsi wanga ndipo, malingana ndi Mawu Ake, pakalipano ndapulumutsidwa. Zikomo Inu, Ambuye, chifukwa chondikonda kwambiri kuti Inu munaloledwa kufa m’malo mwanga. Inu ndinu wodabwitsa, Yesu, ndipo ine ndimakukondani inu.

Tsopano ndikupemphani Inu kuti mundithandize ndi Mzimu wanu kuti ndikhale munthu yemwe mudakonzekera kuti ndikhalepo kuyambira nthawi yoyamba. Nditsogolere kwa okhulupirira anzanga ndi mpingo wa Kusankha kwanu kuti ine ndikule mwa Inu. Mu Dzina la Yesu, ameni.

Zikomo powerenga kabukuka kakang’ono.

Ndikufuna kulandira maumboni a momwe Madalitso adasintha moyo wanu, kapena miyoyo ya omwe mudadalitsa.

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Table of Contents

Maulosi

Chiyambi

Malingaliro

Mphamvu Yathu Kulankhula

Kuchokera Ku Zabwino Kulankhula Ndi Madalitso: Kuitana Kwathu

Kodi Mdalitso Wachikhristu Ndi Chiyani?

Ulamuliro Wathu Wauzimu

Mfundo Zina Zofunikira

Sungani Mlomo Kukhala Moyo Wosatha

Funsani Mzimu Woyera Zomwe Munganene

Madalitso Osiyana ndi Kupembedzedzwa

Musamaweruze

Chitsanzo Chachifaniziro

Mavuto Osiyana Amene Tingawapeze

Madalitso Omwe Amakutemberera Kapena Kukudzudzula

Kudalista Amene Akukuzunzani Kapena Akukukanizani

Kudalitsa Amene Akukuvutitsani Inu

Madalitso, M’malo mwa Modzidzudzula

Kuzindikira ndi Kuthetsa Zotsutsa

Mlomo Wodalitsika

Maganizo A Wodalitsika

Madalitso Ambiri Athu

Kudalitsa Banja Lanu, Ukwati ndi Ana

Madalitso a Atate

Kudalitsa Ena Mwa Kumasula Ulosi

Kudalitsa Ntchito Yanu

Kudalitsa Anthu aDera

Kudalitsa Dziko

Kudalitsa Ambuye

Mawu Otsiriza ochokera kwa Wophunzira

Mapulogalamu

Mmene Mungakhalire Mkhristu